
Losing Your Faith, Finding Your Soul: The Passage to New Life When Old Beliefs Die
David Robert Anderson
Convergent Books, 2013
272 pp., $19.99
Philip Yancey
Hip Christian Books
Sampling a new genre.As I look back on the pile of books I read in 2013, a number of them seem to fall into a new genre. "Christian hip," I'll call it. Move over John Stott, Chuck Colson, and Max Lucado. These books circle around faith matters in a decidedly non-traditional way. Many of the authors came out of a strict evangelical or fundamentalist background, and they write about their spiritual detours in a loose, memoir-type style with a few obligatory bad words sprinkled in.
Two publishers have devoted an entire line of books to this new genre: Jericho Books by Hachette/Faith Words and Convergent Books by Crown/Penguin/Random House. (In this day of corporate mergers, publishers have multiple names, like royalty.) I tend to give their books the exercise machine test. If they hold my interest for thirty minutes on an exercise bike or elliptical machine, I'll read them more carefully later. The following passed that test.
Losing Your Faith, Finding Your Soul by David Robert Anderson was the most rewarding discovery, and I marked it up heavily. An Episcopal minister in Connecticut, Anderson has been on a journey toward an honest faith that may rattle some evangelicals but comfort many others. His well-researched book includes some lovely stories and juicy quotes, such as, "The comedian Cathy Ladman was not far wrong when she remarked, 'All religions are the same: religion is basically guilt with different holidays.' "
The Invisible Girls by Sarah Thebarge ranks as my personal favorite in this genre. At age 27, Sarah Thebarge had life in her pocket, with a boyfriend, an Ivy League degree, and a good job. Breast cancer, a cross-country move, and a painful breakup changed all that, and yet her own travails are not the main focus of the book—a family of Somali refugees is. What happens next in her beautifully told story proves the truth of Jesus' statement that we find our lives by giving them away.
Speaking of giving away your life, Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove makes that a career. Along with Shane Claiborne, he founded the New Monastic movement. He and his wife Leah live in a Christian community that opens its door wide to any straggler. What would happen if we took literally Jesus' command to "Give to everyone who asks"? Strangers at My Door gives the answer, in a way that inspires the reader toward hospitality rather than guilt.
Addie Zierman's When We Were on Fire is a model of the raised-Christian-then-left-the-church-and-maybe-the-faith-then-warily-climbed-back memoir. She pulls it off. Here's a sample: "Some of us searched longer than others, but in the end we faded out. We were looking for Jesus. Instead we found programs, guilt, and awkward small talk. We found fog machines and Five-Simple-Steps-to-Spiritual-Growth and fill-in-the-blank Bible studies. So we started sleeping in on Sunday mornings. We went to the farmers market and bought good things straight from the earth. We drank our morning coffee at small café tables outside, and people walked by with their dogs at a slow, Sunday-morning pace. It felt more like rest to us than those chaotic church mornings, when we moved through the loud small talk of the church foyer and felt invisible."
Pastrix, by Nadia Bolz-Weber, covers similar terrain on steroids. Tattooed like a motorcycle mama, potty-mouthed, an in-your-face standup comic, Nadia surprised everyone—especially herself—by becoming a Lutheran minister and founding The Church for All Sinners and Saints in my home city of Denver. Her style may be off-putting to some, but underneath she writes with passion about a contentful faith. I think of her as a sheep in wolf's clothing.
Some of these books center on a particular issue. Sober Mercies, by Heather Kopp, gives a harrowing account of a committed Christian, herself an author and married to a Christian publishing executive, who has a secret life as an alcoholic. Torn, by Justin Lee, brings both poignancy and compassion to the church's ongoing conversation about homosexuality. Mixed-Up Love, by Jon Sweeney and Michal Woll, tells what happens when a kid from a blue-blood evangelical family becomes Catholic and marries a Reconstructionist rabbi. Holly Burkhalter's Good God, Lousy World & Me explores the age-old question of a loving God and a world of evil through the lens of the International Justice Mission, an organization that responds not by philosophizing but by advocacy and activism.
Other books give a kind of apologetic for the church. In When "Spiritual But Not Religious" Is Not Enough, Lillian Daniel makes a strong case for faith not being a solitary undertaking. Rob Strong, who lives in Massachusetts, "the least churched state in the USA," tries in The Big Guy Upstairs to explain faith to those who would not understand Christian lingo.



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sue johnson
Yancey has done us all a huge favor by reviewing all of these books! He has also contributed much to our culture by noting the use of "bad words." Integrity in vocabulary, whether vernacular or print, is imperative according to Scripture. Our brother James warned us vehemently about speaking "naturally." In order to grow and mature in the faith, our meditations, speech, and writing must continually be transformed to the Biblical standard not our "own understanding." "Bad words" do not enhance truth or suggest authenticity. Anything worth saying can be said well without them. That is the greater challenge that all of us should encourage each other to achieve in 2014! Thank you, Phil Yancey!
Burkhard Lehmann
Read a Q&A session DR Anderson. Seemed like new age spirituality. Jesus one option among many...it is what feels right to you. Seems like Yancey is going down the same path...
JD Walters
Yancey is very generous in reviewing these books the way he does. I think there are way too many of them and would prefer if more Christian authors modeled themselves after Aquinas, who cared nothing for himself but wrote innumerable, supremely enlightening volumes about God and the world as it relates to God. Those are much better subjects for contemplation than the ups and downs of relatively privileged millennials.
Matt
Thank you. I was expecting this review to be more condescending, as I have noticed that connotation to the word 'hip' (and probably used it that way myself). Instead it seemed optimistic, encouraging and fair. I would only add that swearing may not be an "ingredient" unless it it used inauthentically. It is surely a sign of something, perhaps it is the casual nature of this type of Christian (that many Christians no longer care that much about 'those words') or conversely that perhaps that a certain bitterness or anger (an 'edge') characterizes their lives, or BOTH resulting in a break with decorum and normal Churchly 'civility'.
Michael Serafin
Rob Bell's books are better listened to, than read.
Lee Hall
Thank you for your breakdown on these books. Sounds like there are some exciting new voices in the church! My only comment would be on your two references regarding profane words. I think it is selling the authors short to presume that they used certain words to be considered hip. I would suggest -- and let me be quick to say that I have not read any of these books yet -- but perhaps, rather than dismissing their use of language, it might be more profitable to consider their reasons for including it. As skilled authors represented by good editors, I doubt that they just threw them in for flair. I would suggest that it might be more of a way to talk in the vernacular that they honestly use. That they were not striving for effect, but were simply expressing themselves truthfully and chose not to change their natural voice. I think they may have walked a fine-line to not be hypocritical.
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